This book is a personal effort to improve myself and be a better partner in my relationship with a man. I created it after it was suggested I do so, following two conferences for women in both Montreal and Toronto on this topic. Creating this work made me realize I had to become the person I wanted to spend my life with. I worked very hard and it was all worthwhile; I am now blissfully married to the man of my dream, David Temple, my partner in La Vie Ensemble, our musical duo.